Last week my girlfriend posted a picture of her husband on facebook wearing an apron making dinner with the comment: “Seriously, does it get any better? (Husband's Name) is making chicken adobo (Filipino dish) & rice w/veggies! I LOVE my man!” The man is already sexy, but I have to say seeing him in an apron cooking dinner for his wife made him even sexier. This reminded me of a book I saw at a novelty store titled Porn for Women. When you see it you laugh and roll your eyes, but then when you think about it you realize it’s so true. There is nothing sexier then a man taking the initiative to work around the house.
Last week my roommate was scrubbing down our showers and I have to say he was looking quite sexy. I really wanted to take a picture, but resisted. (I hate cleaning showers and always seem to intoxicate myself and get sick so we have an agreemment. He'll do showers and I'll do the vanity.) So, seeing him clean my shower too with out me asking was very impressive. So far this arrangement is working very well.
Then this past Saturday my roommate was out front sawing down a tree and this time I wasn’t shy. I told him I needed a picture of this for my blog. I ran up and grabbed my camera and snapped a few pictures. He thought it was the funniest thing ever me taking pictures of him. We had lots of good laughs as he got the tree sawed down.
The thing that makes it so sexy is, that was something I used to be in charge of, so to have someone else do all these things with out me saying anything is great. It’s hard to really explain, but in a way it’s a total role reversal and I love it. I love being the guest. I love having no obligations to the house. I live there so I keep it up. I’m forever scrubbing the kitchen and cleaning a little here and he loves and appreciates every little thing I do, as he knows that each thing I do is a gift.
He came home from the store the other day with olives, mixed dried fruit, and some apple/fruit sauce for me. That is so sweet, because it’s not like you can see something on the shelf as you walk by and grab. He has to read the fine print and 99.9% of the time the item won’t qualify so to bring me home something is quite a chore. I made a joke to him about him working so hard to keep me around and he said something to the effect of he knows there is reciprocation in all things. That is true. The more he does for me the more I want to do things for him. And so far it’s paying off on both ends. We’re both feeling quite spoiled.
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