1st Choice

My girlfriend said something the other day that’s been bothering me. She said, “I’m not someone’s first choice.” I don’t know about you but doesn’t that sound awful?  I know for a very long time I didn’t feel very desirable. I hated myself and would hate to live with someone like me. But, I’ve finally got over that.  Now I think if a guy gets to spend time with me he’s quite lucky, as I don’t spend time with just anyone. Then if he get’s to marry me he’s ever luckier as I don’t just marry anyone. And who ever ends up to be my last husband, and eternal companion, now he’s the luckiest one of all.  So, with me 1^st or 2^nd choice/place isn’t always the best. Being number one in my life is the key.

I have to say if I am with someone that has been married before or who has previous girlfriends, I say thank you for making him the man he is today. You saved a lot of work for me.  And I’m glad you(he) choose me and made me number one in your(his) life.  And to me I am his first choice, he could have chosen any one of you and he choose me, I must be something special, actually I know I’m something special.  Who ever gets me is one lucky guy.  Just ask Josh he’s vouch for me as being an amazing wife and he knows who ever gets me is one lucky guy. Isn’t it nice to have your ex still think you’re amazing and quite the catch. I think so; It tells me that I did a million things right in that relationship.