I want to marry "The Perfect Man.”
Who is also “Mr. Wonderful”
Check out Mr. Wonderful's credentials. He been carefully developed with today's modern woman in mind. He is complete with good looks, sense of style, sensitivity, charm, and is genuinely sincere. Here are a few of the things you will hear him say.
"Thinking of you is the best part of my whole day."
"This evening, let's just lie in bed and talk all night."
"You're perfect just the way you are, I wouldn't change one thing."
“You know honey, why don’t you relax and let me make dinner tonight.”
“The ball game isn’t that important, I’d rather spend time with you.”
"I seem to be lost. I think I'll pull over and ask directions."
You can't tell me this is cop out to answering today's blog post. If you really think about it who doesn't want to be married and or spend their future with one of these guys. No girl in their right mind intentionally marries the jerk, the male chauvinist pig, the alcoholic, or the abusive husband. We as a society strive to get the biggest and the best or sometimes the smallest and the best, it all depends on what you are referring to.
Thus I want to marry the best. Now, the best for me may not be the best for you. I do want to Marry The Perfect Man. I see my self being married to The Perfect man. The thing is he is perfect for me. What I want in a spouse may not be what you want in a spouse. And that is ok. This enables us to all be friends as we are not all competing for the same Mr. Wonderful.
So, you may ask what I am looking for in my Mr. Perfect. Here are a few things on my check list.
1. He has to be able to take me to the temple. I'm sorry guys, but that is just the way it has to be this time. I've tried it the other way and I just feel this is what is best for me. So if you love me you will support me in this decision.
2. I've got to be very attracted to him. You don't have to find him attractive and I hope you don't because I don't want to have to worry about you stealing him away from me, but I have to find him totally hot. I've tried it the other way before, finding a man with a good heart and well it just doesn't work. I need the full package this time and that includes some eye candy as my girlfriend puts it. She is an older women and she just cracks me up in church as she talks about her husband. I hope I am like her when we're older.
3. I need to have a spiritually connection with him. We need to be able to discuss churchy stuff and learn from each other. And we really need to be able to connect on a spiritual level.
4. He's got to have his own friends and support system. I can't be everything to him. He needs guys to out with and hang out with.
5. Doesn't make fun of my singing. I know I can't carry a tune, but I enjoy being able to join in singing in church. And we do a lot of singing in church and I don't want to sit there in silence just to please him. It's just not a very good feeling to have someone laugh at you, roll their eyes, make fun of you and tell you to just mouth the words.
6. Willing to invest time in figuring out what makes me happy and then does those things. I think this is only fair as this is what I do.
7. Enjoys having people over and being social and encourages me to be social. I want him to encourage me to spend time with my girlfriends. And be willing to take care of the children so I can do this.
8. Sticks up for me and doesn't let people around me be mean to me in word or deed.
9. Opens doors
10. Gets along with my family.
11. Loves dancing with me.
12. Has goals in life and works towards them.
13. Attends the temple regularly.
14. I like his family and enjoy spending time with them.
15. Works continually to better himself.
16. Can drive safely
17. Knows how to iron, cook, clean and do laundry.
18. Knows how to budget money and does.
19. Doesn't expect me to be happy all the time. Is empathetic of my being depressed sometimes. Takes my feelings seriously.
20. Goes to the doctor and dentist regularly for check ups. Has health insurance and thinks having health insurance as important.
21. Willing and eager to grown and change with me.
22. Enjoys playing board and card games.
23. Willing and patient so he is able to teach me things.
24. Remembers his own families birthdays
25. Enjoys serving the community.
26. Exercises and takes care of himself.
27. Puts God #1 and me next
28. Plays sports with me and has fun. He can't be too completive because that wouldn't be fun since I'm not that good.
29. Plans ahead for possible problems.
30. Doesn't dress me.
31. Doesn't bring up mistakes I have made in my past and tease me about it or make fun of me.
32. Helps me accomplish my goals.
33. Encourages me to have hobbies and helps me make time for them.
34. Pays his bills on time. Doesn't abuse credit cards.
35. Lives on his own.
36. Helps me to keep the commandments.
37. Goes to church every Sunday, does his callings.
38. Enjoys the outdoors, enjoys being active.
39. Romantic
40. Initiates conversations.
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