The best thing about being single AGAIN is the potential of falling in love. Relationships are all a clean slate. I no longer have to plug along working with what I have, dealing with the cards I’ve been dealt, making unreasonable compromises, and enduring to the end. For those that are innocent and naive and who have never been in a committed long-term relationship I have one up on them. My prior relationships have blessed me with knowledge and wisdom. I am better able to evaluate what I am willing to put up with, work with, and work around. I know no one is perfect and I don’t expect to find Mr. Perfect, I’m just looking for the perfect person for me.
Being back in the game is fun and exciting. We may mock or frown upon celebrities as they go in and out of relationships and marriages, but we should be happy for them that they haven’t given up on love and marriage.
Some people shy away from relationships and marriage after they have had their heart broken. From experience I know that a truly broken heart isn’t the easiest thing to recover from. On the other hand I can’t give up on love; because if I did I would loose faith in humanity and life it’s self. To keep my self-going I need to believe that one day I will fall head over heels in love with a gorgeous hunk. And he will feel the same way about me. I'm not getting married this time because it logically makes sense. I'm getting married this time for love. (Don't get me wrong I'm not going into this totally blind, I'm not going to be blinded by love and totally swept off my feet by some psycho, I'm not dumb.)
Thing are very different this time. I am a not the same person I was 7 years ago or 14 years ago. This time I’m NOT looking for someone to rescue me. I have a wonderful apartment that I love coming home to. I have a job so I am able to support myself and I have health insurance. I have my independence. I am happy for the most part and healthy. My self-worth goes up and down, but at least it goes up, so that is a plus.
With that being said, bring it on!!!
If you're a hot LDS guy, seeking a life of fun, laughter and adventure,
I'm currently taking applications...
You must be willing to work hard to keep me laughing, having fun, and just a hit it helps to shower me with romance.
I eagerly look forward to falling in love over and over again.
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