Chemistry

Do you need instant chemistry or can chemistry be built?  I was reading this girl’s blog and she said “I know myself well-enough that I don't build chemistry with someone, it has to be there from the start.” (Click here to view her blog) This got me thinking. I am not a believer of “love at first sight,” so I have been working with the theory that chemistry can be built. I’ve been dating a lot and as much as I have tried the chemistry is not building. These are really nice guys and on paper they seem perfect for me, but I’m just not feeling the chemistry. After existing a chemistry-less relationship I vowed this time that prior to entering into a committed relationship I must be head over heels in love.

You may be wondering why don’t I believe in love at first sight. The reason is because it never seems to work for me. Those people I have felt instant chemistry with have never wanted to inter in a relationship with me. This isn’t just recently it’s the story of my life. After suffering several broken hearts I have kind of given up on every getting that. So I changed my dating approach and have been sticking to dating those people that flirt back with me that seem nice and hope that overtime that chemistry will happen.  So far things haven’t panned out with this theory.

I watched the move Hitch yesterday and he said: “…any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet. He just needs the right broom.”  Maybe my fellow blogger is right, there needs to be some chemistry from the start.  Thus said maybe I should go back to seeking after those that I feel instant chemistry with. To make this a success I just need to find the “right broom.”  How do I find the “right broom?”