The Best Wife Ever

Just as my ex-husband. He will tell you he lost the best wife ever. He's have a heck of a time trying to find another me.  It was funny as to how many guy's envied my ex, saying they wish they had a wife just like me. His cousin was on a quest to find a duplicate me.

 If treated right I will rock your world. I am every man's dream. I am the Holly Homemaker and Porn star all wrapped up into one. My life evolves around the ones I love.  I do everything for the ones I love. I will not only bend over backwards for those I love, but I will also move mountains.  I am a ton of fun. I am very spontaneous and love to have fun, but I'm also well organized thus I am able to be spontaneous.

I'm an amazing chef and homemaker.   I can sew, can, garden, and fix almost anything.  I am a master of home and yard maintenance.  I am the full package. 

If my current husband would only treat me like the princess I am he would be amazed.

If I were a bird I would soar. If only my husband wasn't always trying to control me and clip my wings.  That was the big reveal at our counseling session last night.  I am married to a control freak. He in his bizarre thinking thinks I am trying to control him and thus is on a quest to control me.  He said it point blank that he is trying to control me. This is not the first time he has admitted to trying to control me.  But this time it hit hard the reality in me that I am married to someone that has this deep desire and need to control me.

I tried to explain to him that I have no desire to control him, that all I want is for him to happy and healthy and to succeed in life. She also tried to help him understand that I do all I do to help him and help our relationship.  

I also realized to the degree that he doesn't really hear anything I say.  It's beyond misinterpretation.  Maybe he just doesn't listen as he's too busy having our conversation in his head and he's hearing what he assumes I am saying, but not what I say at all. And we all know what happens when we assume. (We make a ass out of u and me)

It is also feeling a bit like I am with Jekyll and Hyde.  He brought some things up that we had talked about and at the time it appeared that he understood me and I understood him and now he is furious and it's as if we never had that conversation.  

I don't have time to explain further as I need to attempt to focus at work, but all I can say is I'm quite freaked out to be married to a control freak and someone that doesn't hear me at all.