Being single has its perks. If one group of your friends is doing something that doesn’t really interest you, there is a good possibility you can find another friend or group of friends that is doing something you consider more fun. Now that I’m single weekends are so much more fun. I actually look forward to them. They are filled with things I like to do for the most part. Not 100% because I do have friends and we do compromise. I am not anti-compromising. I was just tired of the comprise being hanging out with wasted people. They were nice. They would invite me to join in their drinking games and said I can drink soda if I wanted, but it’s just not very fun. I never got the jokes because when you are sober you don’t see the zombies chasing you. And jokes have to actually be funny for sober people to laugh at them. Unlike drunk people, sober people don’t laugh uncontrollably at nothing.
The activities I’ve participated in since I have been single haven’t always been my first choice of things to do. On the other hand for the most part they still rate on the good, better, and best scale. I have managed to opt out of the not fun at all activities I used to have to compromise on.
In addition I used to have such a hard time saying “no.” I used to be a pleaser. What every made him happy I would do. I have finally gotten over that stage of my life. I am no longer a martyr. I now enjoy what I do.
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